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Seeking Dom FWB

I love to suffer for the pleasure of a dominant man who enjoys me. Hurt me for your enjoyment.

I'm a masculine, intellectual nerd with a good job, a life, and a loving wife. But i'm also a bi bottom, and my wife lets me have a dom man. My last dom man of several years has moved out of town, so I need a new man. I'm looking for a long-term FwB, someone I can hang out wish, have fun, and also serve you sexually as your sex toy.

Me: 6 foot, fairly athletically built, work out several times a week. I'm a bottom; I enjoy you using both of my holes for your pleasure. I'm also a sub, I enjoy you hurting me for your pleasure, especially nipple torture and CBT, and if you like, I will also receive WS.

Out of bed I am a liberal/libertarian in the style of Bill Maher. I have advanced degrees, and spend a lot of time watching the *actual* history and science shows on the History and Science channels, and ignore the ice road truckers :) I also love science fiction, in books, movies, and TV shows. I enjoy skiing in winter, hiking in summer, and hanging out with good friends in a pub with a real ale. It would be extra special to hang out in a pub with you and our other friends, with only you and I knowing that I am secretly your sex slave.

You: are a thoughtful dom. You enjoy hurting me for your pleasure, but do it with delight because we both enjoy it, as opposed doing it with anger. I do like to be hurt, don't like to be punished, if that makes sense.

Your age and appearance don't matter much to me, I care much more about your mind than your body. Your relationship status does matter to me; I don't mind if you are single or attached, to either a man or a woman, so long as your partner knows that you are playing with me, e.g. no cheaters please.

I'm an enthusiastic bottom, and an enthusiastic snowboarder. Would love to find a dom who would like to be my Master and my ski buddy.
Need a new man who would enjoy cruising the slopes with me by day, and using my aching body by night.

Perfect day: go skiing together, have some wonderful turns and good times like good friends do. Stop at a pub on the way home for a beer. Finally when we get home, you relieve yourself in my mouth, before proceeding to use me for your pleasure.

If you find me interesting, please reply with more than just a one-liner. Its impossible for me to tell if you are a match for me if you only say a few words. Thanks, and good luck to everyone in finding a suitable playmate.

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Sex Preferences

I preferBottom
I'm aBear
OutOnly close friends know
HIV StatusNegative

Cuckold Preferences

Cuckold Should:Give oral sex to Bull before sex, Gives oral sex to Bull during sex, Clean Bull after sex, Clean up creampie after sex, Be fucked by the Bull
Ideal Experience:A dom bull who is her lover and my dom is my ideal fantasy. But at the moment, she is not in the market, so just looking for a dom for me.

CBT Preferences

I prefer:Depends on my partner, Hard and rough, Make me cry
Things I enjoy:Slapping, Squeezing, Weights/Parachutes
Toys I like to use:Ball crusher, Ball stretcher, Parachute, Humbler, Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Sometimes

Affair Preferences

Does your partner know?Yes

Ball Busting preferences

How Long have you practiced Ball Busting?20 years
How high is your threshold of pain?Intermediate


EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildAthletic / toned
Height183 cm
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairBeard
Best featureButt
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA gentleman, a great guy who is my friend, and who get really happy because i encourage him to hurt me.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isMasochist
I am seekingA master
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Genital torture, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner


FetishesCuckolding, Exhibitionism

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Regular Bars, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexI need it daily
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Office supplies
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Blood, scat, permanent damage, tickling

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyNaked slave boy 24/3: spend a weekend or so with my Master being his naked sex slave and servant.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, I'm always in the mood, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:I like to be naked.
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Hairbrush, Wooden Spoon
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks